Dear Dr. Diana: My wife and I have been together almost 10 years and long before the pandemic we had settled into a comfortable routine that didn’t include much sex. As a lesbian couple, we have bonded very strongly emotionally (we still tell each other “I love you” every day), but we have gradually drifted apart sexually speaking. This was pretty much OK with both of us, as we each had busy lives with work and social commitments. We are now both working at home and are limit